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Membership guide
EliteSingles pricing and Elite Select, explained.
EliteSingles may vary its available plans, subscription lengths and promotional offers. This guide focuses on what to compare and the additional value currently presented with Elite Select, so you can decide whether the upgrade fits the way you want to date.
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What are you paying for?
The value of a dating membership is not simply the number of features. It depends on whether the service has a useful local match pool, whether its members broadly share your relationship intent and whether paid tools solve a real limitation in your experience.
Before upgrading, create your profile, review the matches available in your area and understand which communication tools are included in the offer shown to you. If you expect to use the service consistently, compare the total commitment across plan lengths rather than judging only the monthly equivalent.
At a glance
Standard membership vs Elite Select
Standard access can depend on the plan offered at the time. “Check current plan” means you should confirm the live product and checkout details before paying.
| Feature | Standard membership | Elite Select |
|---|---|---|
| Create a profile and explore the service | Included | Included |
| Core matching and discovery experience | Standard access | Expanded controls |
| Unlimited private messages, swipes and likes | Check current plan | Included |
| See likes and profile visitors | Check current plan | Included |
| Priority recommendations and new-member access | Not listed | Included |
| Advanced filters and curated daily matches | Check current plan | Included |
| Voice and video tools with privacy controls | Check current plan | Included |
| Human concierge and additional exposure | Not listed | Included |
| Anonymous browsing and on-demand invisibility | Not listed | Included |
| Ad-free experience | Check current plan | Included |
Elite Select
35 privileges across visibility, communication and privacy.
The privileges below reflect the Elite Select benefits supplied for this guide. Product availability can change, so treat the live membership screen as the final source before upgrading.
Be more visible
More ways to surface your profile, understand interest and revisit potential matches.
- Priority recommendations
- Priority access to new members
- Create a personalised date event and let interested members request to join
- See who likes you
- See who viewed you
- Advanced discovery filters
- Curated daily matches
- Reconnect with expired matches
- Reset flame passes
- Unlimited profile rewinds
- Start an interest group or mini-community
Optimise your connections
Expanded communication tools for moving from an introduction to a real conversation.
- Unlimited private messages
- Unlimited swipes and likes
- Personalised greeting cards
- Video and voice chat with phone-number masking
- Voice messages
- View-once photos for enhanced privacy
- Prevent incoming video and voice calls
- Unlimited winks
- Customised winks
- Message search
Stand out more
Premium presentation and support features for members who want a more tailored experience.
- Human concierge
- Pin chats to the top
- Additional profile exposure
- Custom chat wallpaper
- Unlimited custom photo albums
- Exclusive emojis
- Animated winks
Take control
Extra privacy choices for managing when and how your profile appears.
- Hide selected profiles from search
- Browse profiles anonymously
- Choose who sees you
- Change your username
- On-demand invisibility
Before you pay
Review the full commitment.
- 01
Confirm the total price
Check the full amount charged, the subscription length and whether tax or other charges are included.
- 02
Read the renewal terms
Note whether the plan renews automatically, the renewal amount and the date by which you must cancel.
- 03
Check the cancellation route
Understand where subscription management sits and whether cancelling access differs from deleting a profile.
- 04
Judge value from your own match pool
Features have more value when the people available in your area suit your preferences and relationship goals.
Make an informed choice
See the membership options currently available to you.
Review live plan lengths, included features and payment terms directly before you subscribe.
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